Ask yourself these simple questions and with the most honest truthful words that you can pull out from deep in your gut, give yourself your reply.
Do you really believe in weddings? I mean really , deep down inside, believe in the dress, the flowers, candles, favors, shoes, 1st dance, cakes, food, bridesmaids, groomsmen, photos, videos, hair, makeup, extra gifts, parties etc. etc. ?
Do you feel that it’s all worth it … Just for one day…?
Will you still love your betrothed? the snoring, the bad habits, the corny laugh, the fact that one day shape shifting will take place , if you are lucky, in the form of sagging and bulging , hair loss at one end will be replaced by hair gained at an other.
Are you in it for the fashion statement of marriage and the wedding process or are you genuinely committed to seeing things through with your partner, together, to stand by each other when trouble comes barging through your lives, to respect each other’s differences and accept that you cannot control or change them or their character , nor should this be done to you.
If you’re still in love…
TIE THE KNOT!
The spectacular views from the road above Myrtos Beach, at the edge of the Pylaros valley , Kefalonia!
“Love is temporary madness, it erupts like
volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a
decision. you have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because
Love is not breathlessness, it is not
excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion.
That is just being in love, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.
Those that truly love have roots
That grow towards each other underground, and, when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two.”
Louis de Bernieres
You’re having a wedding to initiate a MARRIAGE. Don’t lose yourself so much in the details that you lose sight of the big picture: Love. Life. Happiness. At the end of the day there are just some things you shouldn’t fret about on your wedding day. Yes, it’s discouraging when something you had planned for so long doesn’t go quite as planned or glitches at the last second but it’s likely so minor that you’re the only one who even notices. It’s more important that you let it all go and just enjoy your day. It will go by in an instant. So don’t waste a nanosecond worrying. JUST. HAVE. FUN. And remember to kiss often.